5 Ft Grandma Trys to Put Baby to Sleep

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Is there anything more peaceful than a sleeping baby? Babies go through a lot of developmental stages, so it's no surprise that your baby might go through a phase where they're hard to put down. This is totally normal, but it can be stressful for you. To make your baby's bedtime easier on everyone, follow our suggestions for relaxing your baby and soothing them to sleep.

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   Wrap your baby in a swaddling cloth or sleep sack to make them feel secure. Sometimes, newborns can twitch or jerk when they sleep, which actually makes them wake up! Prevent these disruptions and make your baby feel snug by swaddling them before you lay them back down. To swaddle, lay your baby on a blanket and tuck their arms along their sides before you securely wrap a blanket around them.^[1]

   • You can swaddle your newborn until they're around 2 months old or they start to roll over.

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   They may be fussing because they're uncomfortable and need something. Ideally, you'll change your baby and feed them before you put them to bed, but young babies do wake up with dirty diapers or hungry bellies. Always check if your baby needs food or a clean diaper if they're crying in the middle of the night.^[2]

   • You may have been told to put cereal in your baby's last bottle because it supposedly keeps their belly full for longer. However, doctors found that it can actually make them more restless since they're more likely to have gas pain.

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   Rub your baby's back while they lay in the crib to reassure them. It's a familiar situation—your baby is comfortable after you've checked on them, but they start to fuss the moment you lay them in the crib. Make the transition easier by rubbing their back for a minute after you place them in the crib. A soothing, familiar touch can make them feel secure so they fall asleep easier.^[3]

   • This is also a great trick to try if you don't want to pick up your baby and walk with them. Sometimes, a few comforting pats on the back are all your baby needs to feel reassured.

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   Give your baby a pacifier to soothe them to sleep. Some babies feel comforted when they suck which is why they might start to drift off when they're nursing or taking a bottle. Instead of letting your baby fall asleep while they're eating, offer a pacifier once they're finished so they can keep sucking. It's totally safe to give your baby a pacifier—studies even show that they might reduce the risk of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS).^[4]

   • Don't leave a pacifier that's attached to a cord with a clip in your baby's crib since they could choke on the cord.
   • If you're breastfeeding, wait until breastfeeding is established—about 3 or 4 weeks after birth—before you offer a pacifier. This can prevent nipple confusion, where your baby struggles to switch between breastfeeding and bottle-feeding or using the pacifier.

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   Put your baby down on their back and keep things out of their crib. Your baby might squirm or move around a little after you lay them down, but resist the urge to pick them up immediately. Give them a few minutes to settle in before you check on them again. This helps them learn to fall asleep on their own, in their own space.^[5]

   • It's tempting to put blankets, stuffed animals, and pillows in the crib to make it comfy, but leave these out. Instead, just cover the mattress with a fitted sheet and lay your baby in the crib so they're on their back. This can reduce the risk of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS).

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   Soothe your baby and stick to their bedtime routine to help them sleep. Babies can start teething around 6 months old and it can be uncomfortable. Your baby may be fussier and clingy, which can make it hard to put them down. To make bedtime easier, snuggle your baby a lot, gently hold a cold cloth over their gums, or let them nurse more. Although it's tough, remember that teething is temporary and your baby will soon be back to their usual sleep habits.^[6]

   • If your baby seems like they're in a lot of pain—crying, not eating well, pulling on their ears—ask your pediatrician if it's okay to give your baby infant acetaminophen or ibuprofen. They can tell you how much medication to give and how often to dose them.

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   Wait a few minutes before you respond to your baby's fussing. If they don't go back down or they're really crying, go in to check on them. Keep the lights off or very dim when you check to see if they need a clean diaper or if they're hungry. Once you've seen that your baby is comfy and full, lay them back in the crib while they're drowsy.^[7]

   • When you check on your baby at night, try not to engage them too much or they may become really alert. For example, instead of talking to them a lot or making lots of eye contact, hum a soothing song and gently rub their back or stroke their head.
   • Feel your baby's diaper through their pajamas. If it's soiled or heavy with wetness, change it, but if it doesn't feel very wet, wait until the morning.

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   Create a basic routine to help your baby relax before they sleep. For newborns, this might mean keeping the lights dim and rocking them while singing. If your baby is older, you could read a little story and swaddle them before putting them to bed. Try baby massage or playing soft music, too.^[8]

   • Whatever you choose to include in your baby's bedtime routine, make sure it's calming so your baby unwinds. You'll probably find that you look forward to this peaceful time, too!
   • Be consistent so your baby starts to expect soothing downtime before they sleep.

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   Get your baby ready for bed when you see their sleepy cues. When your baby gives you signs that they're sleepy, you know they're in the sweet spot for falling asleep. If you wait, your baby might get overtired and cranky, which actually makes it harder for them to drift off! Some of the most common sleepy signs are:^[9]

   • Rubbing their eyes
   • Fussing and clinging
   • Pulling at their ears
   • Yawning
   • Drooping eyelids
   • Making sucking noises

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   Encourage them to fall asleep on their own so they learn to settle themselves. If you have a newborn, it's pretty easy to lay them down in their crib once they fall asleep in your arms. Once your baby gets a few months older, though, try to put them in the crib before they're totally asleep. This way, they learn to drift off without you holding or rocking them.^[10]

   • This also makes it a lot easier for the baby to soothe itself and fall back asleep if they wake up in the middle of the night.
   • Reassure your baby when you lay them down. Rest your hand on their stomach or head for a few seconds so they know you're nearby.

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   Help your baby fall into a sleep routine by putting them down at set times. Sticking with consistent bedtime and nap times can help your baby associate sleep with certain times. Wait until your baby is at least 4 months old before you try a schedule since younger babies need to wake frequently to eat.^[11]

   • Once your baby is around 4 months old, they should be able to sleep for a 5-hour stretch, so sleep training is possible.

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  What are some recommendations to promote safe sleeping?

  

  Julie Wright is a Marriage and Family Therapist and the co-founder of The Happy Sleeper, which offers sleep consulting and online baby sleep classes. Julie is a licensed psychotherapist specializing in babies, children, and their parents, and the co-author of two best selling parenting books (The Happy Sleeper and Now Say This) published by Penguin Random House. She created the popular Wright Mommy, Daddy and Me program in Los Angeles, California, which provides support and learning for new parents. Julie's work has been mentioned in The New York Times, The Washington Post, and NPR. Julie received her training at the Cedars Sinai Early Childhood Center.

  

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  The safest place for your baby to sleep is in their own separate space with nothing in it. That means no positioners, no incline, no bumpers, no blankets, and no pillow. The American Academy of Pediatrics also recommends that your baby should be in your room, but not in your bed.

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• Some babies like getting a warm bath before bed while others might not like the water and may get worked up. Pay attention to how an evening bath affects your baby so you know whether or not to make it part of their bedtime routine.

• Consider dimming the lights during your pre-bed routine to reduce your baby's exposure to light before it's time to sleep.^[12]

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Before putting your baby to sleep, change their diaper and feed them so they are as comfortable as possible. Put the baby in some soft pajamas to keep them warm. After dressing your baby, you may find that rocking your baby, singing quiet songs, or bouncing your baby gently in your arms will help them relax. When your baby is starting to show signs of being tired, such as fussiness or droopy eyes, lay them down on their back in their crib. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that healthy babies be put to sleep on their backs to reduce the risk of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS). If your baby is under 2 months old, you can swaddle them to imitate the cozy, confined feelings of the mother's womb, which many babies find relaxing. Stop swaddling them once they are more than 2 months of age since swaddling restricts the baby's movements. Once your baby is safely on their back inside their crib, turn off the lights and try turning on a fan or a white noise machine or app, which helps soothe babies and block out noises that can keep them awake. Keep in mind that no matter what you try, your baby is likely to wake up a few times during the night. They also might not be able to go to sleep when you put them down. If your baby is having trouble falling asleep, or getting back to sleep after waking up, try singing to them, rocking them in your arms, changing their diaper, feeding them again if they are hungry, or walking around the house, gently bouncing them, possibly while wearing them in a sling or carrier. To help your baby to sleep more easily, maintain a consistent routine, and start it at the same time each night. For more advice, including how to train your baby to sleep at the same time every night, keep reading.

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